
Mark and Fifa, a proud new homeowner in Paraiso
Mark Grossman, dedicated team leader of the upcoming June and July builds, was able to give us some insight on how he first got involved, and what inspires him continue to be a passionate advocate for CV:
How did you first get involved with Cambiando Vidas?
Chris Goodrich, the President of CV, is one of my neighbors. After he talked my wife into going on a build, he talked me into leading a build (even though I had never done anything like it before), and four months later the team I helped put together arrived in Santo Domingo. I really had very little faith that it would all come together, but everything fell into place in its own time and in unexpected ways.
What do you do when NOT helping out with CV?
I have four kids ages 5-16 that keep me busy and I teach fourth grade at Lewisboro Elementary School in South Salem, NY.
How many builds have you participated in? What made you want to become a build leader?
I have participated in two builds. Before I got home from the first build, the pieces had already started falling into place for me to head back to the DR to help with another house. So, four weeks after getting home from one build, I was on my way back down for a second. I guess I agreed to be a build leader because I needed to get out of the tiny little box I was living in between work and home and do something different, something that was meaningful in a way I had never experienced before. Now I want to help other people put together their resources so that they can have the experience of providing a family with a home and discovering a side of themselves that they may not be familiar with now.

Build team - Summer 2008
What is your favorite part of the build process?
My favorite part actually ended up being the people I met. The people who live in the villages we served were amazingly welcoming. I was moved by their simplicity of life, and their gratefulness for things that I have long taken for granted. Also, I made connections with the people who were on both of the teams that will stay with me forever. They all feel like brothers and sisters. In many ways, I have an extended family of teammates now. We all got to share in one another’s successes, failures, laughter and frustrations. And we all came to care deeply for one another. Aside from the people, my favorite part of the process was shoveling gravel. Nothing like it.
Who will you be taking on the June and July builds?
In June, I will be going with five teenage boys, a family of four, and six adults. The July team is not yet completely defined, but with the help of my friend Chris MacDonald, who came to Las Charcas last summer with me, we are assembling funding and volunteers. So if anyone is interested, they can let me know.
What are you most looking forward to about returning to the Dominican Republic?
I can’t wait see the local people again. They were all so welcoming, and it will be nice to see faces I know from last summer again when we arrive on the work site. I am also looking forward to the sounds of the DR. The motorcycles and horns in downtown San Juan de la Maguana in particular. There is an amazing life in those sounds. Above all, though, I am looking forward to eating dinner with the family we are building for in the house that we all spent the week building together.
If you could pick one aspect of the Dominican culture that is your favorite, what would it be and why?
The music and the dancing. Bachata and meringue have become my favorite types of music. Even though I don’t speak Spanish, I feel something in the music that does not exist in any other music I know. It is so layered with passion, from the bass lines to the woodblock, every note and beat is filled with this vibe that just makes me feel like I want to be a part of the music. And learning how to dance to bachata and meringue a little allows you to actually be a part of the music.

Cross-Cultural Teamwork
This might be tough – How would you sum up your experience with Cambiando Vidas in 20 words or less?
CV helped me start the process of re-framing my life.
Raw
Heartbreaking
Hope-making
Re-defining
and re-connecting
Thank you to Mark for taking the time to share with us! Please contact the Cambiando Vidas team at cambiandovidasdr@gmail.com if you have any additional questions, or are interested in joining the build in July!